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child custody issue, who is right?
by Anonymous
October 4, 2012 at 11:13 AM
I have sole custody of our ds. Xdh has no court ordered visitation, but I allow him to see ds twice a month for three hours each time.
Here's our issue. Xdh owes about 10k in back support, he hasn't made a payment in over a year. Because of that I can barely afford ds preschool tuition. He will be starting kindergarten next year. Looking into the private schools, I can not afford it unless xdh pays his child support. Since obviously I can not depend on that, I am looking into moving to the suburbs where the schools are better. I can commute to work, and save money because I don't have to pay tuition. Xdh lives 2.5 hours away from us now, if we move he will live 3.5 hours away. He doesn't want me to move because we'll be too far away and it'll be harder to see ds. He's threatening to take me to court if we move.

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  • teresa06
    October 4, 2012 at 11:15 AM
    Let him take you to court. Hes gonna fuck himself with the child support.
  • SnapIt
    by SnapIt
    October 4, 2012 at 11:15 AM
    And whats the reason in why you are only letting him see his kid 2times a month for only 3 hrs each time?

    Is he a danger to his kid?
  • 1boy1girlmama
    October 4, 2012 at 11:17 AM

    This.

    Quoting teresa06:

    Let him take you to court. Hes gonna fuck himself with the child support.


  • owl0210
    by owl0210
    October 4, 2012 at 11:17 AM

     He's in arrears and is lucky he's not in jail. The judge will look at the best interest of the child. There are parents that live in different states and have visitation set up so I don't think there would be an issue in your situation.

  • atmsmom2011
    October 4, 2012 at 11:17 AM
    Eh let him
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    October 4, 2012 at 11:19 AM
    I thought that they don't take cs into consideration in custody hearings.


    Quoting teresa06:

    Let him take you to court. Hes gonna fuck himself with the child support.

  • PerfectVirgo
    October 4, 2012 at 11:19 AM
    As long as u have full custody, and he legally has no visitation schedule, he's screwed.
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    October 4, 2012 at 11:20 AM
    But as far behind as he is he could have a warrent so he could go to jail


    Quoting Anonymous:

    I thought that they don't take cs into consideration in custody hearings.




    Quoting teresa06:

    Let him take you to court. Hes gonna fuck himself with the child support.


  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    October 4, 2012 at 11:20 AM



    Quoting 1boy1girlmama:

    This.

    Quoting teresa06:

    Let him take you to court. Hes gonna fuck himself with the child support.



  • angie729
    October 4, 2012 at 11:21 AM
    Dont tell him your moving. Just move if there is nothing in your papeers that say you cant.

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