Nope. If I wanted him to go and screw who he pleased I wouldn't have gotten married. He is committed to me now, and I to him, no free hall pass. I don't want to invite that type of trouble into my marriage.
February 25, 2012 at 6:54 AM
One of the rules is that he must wear a condom at all times, though I do realize that nothing is 100% safe. So far he's had his permission for aout 4 or 5 years and hasn't used it yet.
Already done. I understand that you and your DH make your own lifestyle choices, and I do respect that. Just please be careful.
Any chance you would be willing to delete your reply that included my quote & name (forgot to hit anonymous before posting) and quote this one instead so I can stay anon? I'd really appreciate it. (= Here's the comment again:
It's not quite that cut and dry. For one thing, I have no desire to
be with another man. Not even a little bit. And even if I did, he
doesn't have it in him to be ok with that. I can totally understand and
respect that. I however am ok with him having sex with another woman
so I gave him "permission". All that aside, this wasn't something he
ever expected really or even asked for. I gave it to him as an
anniversary gift one year.
Double standard. That wouldn't fly with me at all!
My husband has permission to have sex with other women... he hasn't used it yet though. I do not have that same permission but it was my choice to give that to him.