I wanna know what you think about getting pregnant or planning to get pregnant without your boyfriend/fiance/husband etc. knowing that you're actually trying. I know it's your body and you can due what you want. But how do you feel about it? Would you ever do it? Like if you stop taking your birth control or poke holes in the condom, regaurdless of how it's done. How do you feel about it?
I think it is wrong on so many levels. Why lie about wanting a baby with the person you love? I think it sounds like entrapment.
by Anonymous 60
November 24, 2011 at 5:41 PM
I don't think it's a good idea. But if they both want a child and just don't know if they're ready and are just gonna procrastinate maybe it's okay to get the ball rolling. It just depends if he wants a child.
by Anonymous 61
November 24, 2011 at 5:45 PM
I suspect my sister did this by some things she said the father has nothing to do with the child it's sad
Having a baby is a BIG decision. IMO, for a relationship to work, be it a bf/gf situation or a marriage, all big decisions have to at least be discussed. Not all have to be agreed upon, but this one definitely does! No one should bring a baby into a relationship in which both people involved don't want it!! It's not fair to anyone involved and really is just a set up for failure.
by Anonymous 62
November 30, 2011 at 10:35 AM
Im tring To have a baby with my xdf without telling him. We already have 2 kids together and i want 1 more. But i dont want different fathers