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He wants anal
by Anonymous
November 6 at 8:41 PM

My huband has recently been asking more often about anal sex.  I have never tired it but he did it with his first girlfriend.  We've been together many years now and each time he asked for it I've kinda ignored the question.  Thinking its time I give it a try, maybe I'll save that for a christmas present...  

How should I go about this

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  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    November 6 at 10:29 PM
    I would say start with a butt plug first they have anal plugs for beginners and LOTS of Lube. Watch first time anal porn and relax.
  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    November 6 at 11:48 PM
    agree about the lube. I just bought a special anal glide, a botanical one called "Soothe"; it's really thick so it doesn't just rub away but it's not sticky. it's makes all the difference. I didn't think I'd like it either but HELLO! my bf has created a monster
  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    November 6 at 11:50 PM
    I also agree about starting with the plug. they sell "kits" with anal simulators of increasing sizes, so you can start with the smallest one.
  • Anonymous 4
    by Anonymous 4
    November 7 at 4:49 AM

    I started liking anal sex when I was in college. I hade bought my first vibrator and while using it I discovered I enjoyed the the vibration not only on and in my vagina but there too just on the outside. I did this for years, even after I was married. I never told my husband though. When I finally discoved porn I started trying to use my vibrator without the vibration while fingering myself and I would slowly insert the vibrator up there. Then one night while making love to my husband, IT just happened. He didn't even ask. He just carefully eased it in without saying anything and neither did I. The funny thing is that we never ever talk about it. It is just kind of an unspoken thing he will do maybe once a month. I think he knows I enjoy it but he surprises me with doing it.

    That is what I would suggest in the next couple of weeks before letting him stick it in. I think I unintentionally eased myself to that point where it never really hurt.

  • Anonymous 5
    by Anonymous 5
    November 7 at 11:13 AM

    DH and I have massage oil that also can be used as lube and have found that to be a good way to ease in to Anal. He massages me with it and then it just glides right in. Relaxing is key as well so I usually have a few drinks to relax me but it is quite a turn on because my DH loves it and it is a special treat that doesn't happen often. I have never used a butt plug and don't think I would be into that at all but to each their own.

  • Anonymous 6
    by Anonymous 6
    November 7 at 3:44 PM

    Lots and lots of coconut oil, and slooooooowly.

  • BritneySavage
    November 7 at 3:51 PM
    You have gotten some good advice. I don't really have any to offer, but wanted to say that you are making the right choice to give it up to your husband.
    I never learned to like anal, and in fact hate it, but I do it anyway, whenever he wants it, lucky for me that's not very often.
  • cat33
    by cat33
    November 9 at 6:44 PM
    I've tried it once. However not the whole things just the tip and that alone is painful however I cum in seconds.
  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    November 9 at 8:29 PM

    Cum from just the tip being in you?

    Quoting cat33: I've tried it once. However not the whole things just the tip and that alone is painful however I cum in seconds.


  • cat33
    by cat33
    November 10 at 8:06 PM
    Yes

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