In the Bedroom
My dh made fun of me tonight because I am afraid of heights and can't get into the sex swing he bought. This happened after I told him I wanted to strap him down to a chair and give him oral sex. His response was, "You can't even use the swing!" So instead of crying from total humiliation, I asked him not to make fun of Instead of apologizing to me, he says he just won't speak to me and went to sleep. I feel so bad about myself now. He talks a lot about how he and his ex wife used it and blah blah blah. I guess maybe he should go back there. I don't make fun of him when he lasts three seconds. This sucks.
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That was an asshole thing to say, and you should tell him so. And if he does it again, reciprocate by saying, "Yeah, well at least I can give myself an orgasm, that's something YOU haven't been able to do for me lately."
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Well, you aren't his ex-wife... so he needs to forget about whatever he did with his ex-wife and focus on you. Don't feel bad about yourself, he is the bad one here. Try having a conversation about it and see if he can be an adult about it and not a child. If he is still a child about it, no sex for him!
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ouch! sorry hun but thts so wrong of him...tell him his ding-a-ling aint worth ur pussy anyway! also tell him he aint the right size, or when hes done ask him if that was it bc it sucked.... it kills their ego. honestly so many things u can do or say....dont let him control u! or go down on u like tht! nobody deserves it especially when u do other things. u show him ur in control and if he doesnt like it someone else will...oh boy! if he doesnt change he aint worthed
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Good advice! Made me laugh too. Thanks :)
Quoting JR007:
ouch! sorry hun but thts so wrong of him...tell him his ding-a-ling aint worth ur pussy anyway! also tell him he aint the right size, or when hes done ask him if that was it bc it sucked.... it kills their ego. honestly so many things u can do or say....dont let him control u! or go down on u like tht! nobody deserves it especially when u do other things. u show him ur in control and if he doesnt like it someone else will...oh boy! if he doesnt change he aint worthed
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yw!!!! hun u deserve better! he should appreciate what u do for him and love u for it! dont let him treat u like piece of shit
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first and for most i am sorry! your not his ex so he needs to forget that one, dont let him do that to u. no man should leave you feeling like shit!
go ape shit on his ass if he dose that shit again