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Anonymous
no sex drive
by Anonymous
November 19, 2012 at 6:20 PM
Ok so heres my problem..I am 27 ..I work full time and have a 2 year old..ever since ive had my daughter ive had no sex drive..ZERO..nothing. what gives? Its really getting.to me and my husband and im running out.of excuses..their getting old..anyone else been through this??

Replies

  • Andrewsmom70
    November 19, 2012 at 7:03 PM
    Have you talked to your ob/gyn?
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    November 19, 2012 at 7:24 PM
    Yes! She told me its just " stress " and try and exercise but I know its not stress and i was never like this before .
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    November 19, 2012 at 7:26 PM

    i am the same way

  • Andrewsmom70
    November 19, 2012 at 7:28 PM
    Can you orgasm from masturbation?
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    November 19, 2012 at 8:34 PM
    Yes..but never with him..i just want it over with
  • Andrewsmom70
    November 19, 2012 at 8:40 PM
    So, what's your relationship with him like outside the bedroom? Most times when there are bedroom issues, there are issues outside the bedroom as well.
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    January 22 at 2:26 AM
    I'm going thru the exact problem and the doctor has told me the same thing and even switched my bc a couple times.. Still.. Nothing :(. And I want sex so bad but my mind doesn't.. No sex drive or female erection My son is 2 and I'm only 21


    Quoting Anonymous:

    Yes! She told me its just " stress " and try and exercise but I know its not stress and i was never like this before .

  • PartyGalAnne
    January 22 at 2:07 PM

    It's called LIFE. Everyone goes thru it.

    Schedule sex if you have to. Even if you're tired, even if you're not in the mood, even if it seems like work. You two need to make time to connect. You'll find your day will go much smoother if you've had that intimacy and release the night before!

  • justliloleme
    January 22 at 2:12 PM

    I was the same way. We planned a night of just passion so to speak. But no sex. Kind of rediscovering oursleves and each other. When he does "those" things that really remind you why you fell in love to begin with. Even if that's not an issue. It will help. Helped me tons!! Good luck! Hope it gets better for you soon. 

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