In the Bedroom
So I usually suck at being creative when it comes to spicing things up in the bedroom. But I have thought about some things that I want to do, to totally take me out of my comfort zone and things I think would be hot.
I'm really into tieing up and being controlled and stuff in the bedroom, even though I've never done the tied up thing lol. But I love the idea of it, and would love to do it. I' ve told my DH that and he's into trying anything once, but he's never really showed any want to be tied up himself, but he wouldn't mind trying it. I'm usually the submissive one in the bedroom and he's the controlling one. But I want to step outside of my comfort zone and be the controlling one. So this is my plan....
Oh and I have a stipper pole so of course I'm going to use that, and usually when I dance for him he has to touch himself or wants to touch me. But since I want to be in control I want to stop that, so it makes him go crazy lol..ok ok on with the plan.
I want to tie his hands behind the chair and maybe his ankles to the bottom of the chair legs. And strip on the pole for him, touching him from time to time during it. Then when I'm done have nothing on but my high heels, I want to start playing with myself in front of him, not to get off just more of to tease him with it and talk dirty while I do it. And this part may gross some of you out, and it kinda does me too, but my dh freakin loves it. When I'm done playing with myself, I'm going to put my fingers in his mouth so that he can taste me. ( Now through all of this I'm going to be talking dirty even though i have no clue what I'm going to say yet lol) Then I'm going to blindfold him and totally tease him from head to toe (all the while he's still tied to the chair) And when I'm done teasing I was thinking of maybe fucking him while in the chair. It would still make him want me even more because he can touch me or anything while I'm doing it. Then I'll untie him and let him have his way with me.
So that's the gist of my plan..lol. But I would love to have some input. I feel so wierd trying to be the dominant one. But the point of it is, to use him for my pleasure. That kind of stuff has just always been so hot to me, and I think DH would like it too.
So all you dominating ladies, what do you think? What do I need to do differently, and I'll even take what you guys think I should say, bc I have no clue of what to say while being the dominant one!! And I really hope none of you say this is gross lol. I feel like a wierdo for liking this kind of thing. Thanks ladies!!
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I did something similar once.. Hubby attacked me when he was free!!!! Lol good luck!
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yay!! That's what I'm going for!! :)
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I did something similar once.. Hubby attacked me when he was free!!!! Lol good luck! -
That seems like so much work. lol.
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Try not to be awkward either.... Or shy... Just go for it. Take a shot or two if necessary for some courage!
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Eh, not really. The stripping will only last about 3 minutes, then the playing a few minutes then blindfolding him and teasing him a few minutes lol..I don't know haha..I just know it's something that I really really want to do.
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That seems like so much work. lol. -
Yeah I had already planned on that. :) I'm gonna need all the help I can get to unleash my inner freak lol
Quoting Anonymous:
Try not to be awkward either.... Or shy... Just go for it. Take a shot or two if necessary for some courage! -
And u can blame it on the alcohol lol
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haha..that too!!
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And u can blame it on the alcohol lol -
I think its cool that you're doing it. Just in my head my fantasies are a bit different lol. I mean crazy shit like putting plastic sheets on the bed and oiling it up and sliding on him and massaging. Letting his dick graze my pussy and ass but not letting him fuck me..haha. nut I know. Good luck
Quoting Anonymous:
Eh, not really. The stripping will only last about 3 minutes, then the playing a few minutes then blindfolding him and teasing him a few minutes lol..I don't know haha..I just know it's something that I really really want to do.
Quoting Anonymous:
That seems like so much work. lol.
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Dang girl thats all kinds of kinky too!! lol..I never thought about doing stuff like that!! :) Good one!! Everybody's fantasies are different :)
Quoting Anonymous:
I think its cool that you're doing it. Just in my head my fantasies are a bit different lol. I mean crazy shit like putting plastic sheets on the bed and oiling it up and sliding on him and massaging. Letting his dick graze my pussy and ass but not letting him fuck me..haha. nut I know. Good luck
Quoting Anonymous:
Eh, not really. The stripping will only last about 3 minutes, then the playing a few minutes then blindfolding him and teasing him a few minutes lol..I don't know haha..I just know it's something that I really really want to do.
Quoting Anonymous:
That seems like so much work. lol.