In the Bedroom
Im new but I need some helpful advice! DH and i have been together for almost 2years and he recently pointed out to me that I have never initiated sex...crazy I know but I guess I have never even considered it because he always does. I feel terrible and I really want to amp up our sex life (since he has pointed it out we really haven't had sex I think he's waiting for me to make a move ha) but I'm not sure how. So what do you girls do to initiate?! (I swear I'm not an awful wife just something that never crossed my mind since he was always making the first move!!)
Thanks : )
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Go buy something sexy to wear for him, surprise him. I text dirty things to my DH or send him picks that way he's excited when he gets home.
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Wear something suggestive, wait for him naked in bed (this only works if you don't already sleep naked), slide your hand up his inner thigh or into his waistband.
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I tease him mercilessly via text and pictures then when he gets home, I strip him down I push him onto the bed and have at it.
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if i'm lying there, I might roll over while my SO is watching tv---i start kissing--running my fingers through her hair or stroke her arm. If she's on her side, I might rub her back...it just depends where the mood takes me.Just relax and let it take you, Surprise him some night. Just do to him (kiss, hug, rub) what he does to you and pretty soon it will feel like second nature. Maybe, you'll even initiate in some wild places--lol,
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Take of your shirt then.....Grab his dick and start sucking it.
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All of the above ;) .......get to it woman, have your way with him! -
I start making out with him and playing with him, then move to oral than usually jump on! botto bang :)
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My DH doesn't really get worked up via text. I can send him a sexy pic or send him sexy texts. He says hot. Comes home and no sex. So, I quit doing it.
Quoting Anonymous:
I tease him mercilessly via text and pictures then when he gets home, I strip him down I push him onto the bed and have at it. -
at least you get a reaction when u try..i donteven geta response... nothing... very disheartning.. iknow im not exy by anyones standards but naked erotic is naked and eortic... im in the ame boat you are lady..good luck..let me nkow if you hve ny luck
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yup, just grab his dick and go...