In the Bedroom
I really do not like sex. Never has. It's always been more of a burden than an enjoyable experience. My DH's sex drive has not decreased at all in the 16 years we've been together but mine sure has. It went from being a low sex drive to no sex drive and now to a "please, don't even try to touch me" sex drive.
I've tried to "have sex even when you don't want it" routine and that just led to me resenting him and caused a lot of problems.
No insurance so the doctor is out. I have an iud, the one without the hormones because the hormones in bc pills just made me mean and dropped my already non-existant sex drive even farther down the tubes.
Sleep would be great but the 9 month old baby has been keeping me up half the night. And even when I was getting good sleep, I still hated sex.
Counselors, therapists, doctors, etc all cost money we don't have right now.
I'm so tired of disappointing him but I really hate sex.
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nothing?
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I just did it anyway.i did try and relax that dose help making myself think about it helps get me worked up a little. sex use to hurt like hell now it feels okay (for me okay is way better then hurts !) -
Toys? Maybe try a date nite? Is it because you have such a young child and you are tired? Maybe try porn or maybe you just need extra attention & stimulation to get you in the mood? -
Damn -
Are you asexual?
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what specifically is it that you do not like about sex?
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Quoting anime.princess:
Are you asexual?
What's that???
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Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting anime.princess:
Are you asexual?
What's that???
A person who doesn't like any sex.
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Quoting jynkx:
what specifically is it that you do not like about sex?
Everything. I don't like the feel, the smell, the sounds. Sex just doesn't feel good to me.
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Quoting anime.princess:
Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting anime.princess:
Are you asexual?
What's that???
A person who doesn't like any sex.
Then that would probably be me because I don't like any of it.