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Letter Telling Family to Euthanize Autistic Child Ruled Out as a Hate Crime
August 21, 2013 at 10:42 AM

Letter Telling Family to Euthanize Autistic Child Ruled Out as a Hate Crime

by Jeanne Sager

policeIn a letter that proves that there is pink paper in the depths of hell, a family of a teenager with autism was recently told to euthanize the 13-year-old or move out of their neighborhood. The typed letter that came from an anonymous neighbor of Maxwell Begley's family has gone viral, angering just about anyone who reads it. That includes the cops, who are trying to figure out what to do about the "pissed off mother" who sent the note.

For starters, if and when they find her, they won't be charging her with a hate crime.

It's too bad.

The letter is certainly full of hateful comments about the 13-year-old, from urging the Begleys to donate whatever “non-retarded body parts he possesses" to science to referring to noises the child makes when outside as "noise polluting whaling (sic)." But Durham Regional Police in the Begleys' hometown of Newcastle, Ontario, have reviewed the letter and determined the language doesn't qualify as a hate crime under Canadian statutes.

That's the bad news.

The good news is that the cops have taken the letter in as evidence, and they are trying to do something about it.

Criminal charges could come of this. Thank goodness.

Because a letter like that can't just make us mad. While that's all well and good in terms of increasing awareness of the discrimination and cruelty kids on the autism spectrum (and their families) encounter, Internet outrage isn't worth a whole lot. Throw in $1.50 and you might get a decent cup of coffee.

A letter like this crosses so many lines that it has to get the writer in real trouble, right? Otherwise, what's to keep them from doing it again?

Criminalizing behavior like this is the only sure way to prevent it from being repeated.

Frankly, it's hard to figure out the exact line between freedom of speech and harassing speech, and I'll admit I'm no expert on Canadian laws.

It's OK to hate on your neighbors from the privacy of your own home -- according to one survey, as many as 60 percent of people have admitted they don't get along with the folks next door. But you certainly don't take it beyond personal griping, and especially not in the form of a hate-filled screed about an innocent child.

It would seem to be criminal to have actually sent this letter to the family. This wasn't a letter someone wrote on their own computer, printed, then balled up and threw away. It wasn't even a rather inappropriate blog post.

This was a letter specifically sent to the Begley family. It was meant to hit them at home, on their own turf, where they should be able to feel safe, where Maxwell should be able to feel loved.

At the very least, the letter writer should be forced to do a little community service ... perhaps at a place that serves kids with special needs?

Check out the letter -- do you think criminal charges should be filed?

Would you consider this a hate crime?

Letter to family of autistic child


Replies

  • letstalk747
    Joy
    August 21, 2013 at 10:47 AM

    hate crime ,

    if they can find her , get a harassment order thru the court

  • kimber2465
    August 21, 2013 at 10:49 AM

    why would it not be hate crime?

  • Mipsy
    by Mipsy
    August 21, 2013 at 11:05 AM
    That's ridiculous! How is that not a hate crime?!
  • jjamom
    by jjamom
    August 21, 2013 at 11:24 AM
    That letter is so disgusting! It is clearly harassment, how is that not a hate crime? What worries me most is what this psycho of a neighbor might do to this family moving forward. You know she is just reveling in the fact that the police don't see it as a crime, and it probably makes her feel justified in her actions. I would even worry that lack of action by the police dept might spur her on to do even worse. It just makes me incredibly ill to think there are such cruel and heartless people in this world. What kind of MOTHER (she cites her own "normal children") would think this is appropriate???

    We do have to keep in mind that this happened in Canada and unfortunately, their laws may differ from ours.
  • Mrs_Jagger
    August 21, 2013 at 11:55 AM

    Yes, hate crime for sure. The only thing that I keep thinking is "This woman who typed the letter has children?!" Disgusting.  

  • mom18103
    August 21, 2013 at 2:20 PM

     I would hunt her down & have my own justices

  • jjamom
    by jjamom
    August 21, 2013 at 3:07 PM
    I was just thinking that the cops are really going to have a problem on their hands when this Mom figures out who sent that letter and decides to find justice on her own!


    Quoting mom18103:

     I would hunt her down & have my own justices


  • JKuney
    by JKuney
    August 21, 2013 at 3:11 PM

    This whole thing makes me sick. Why would it not be a hate crime? She clearly admits hateful feelings towards the boy, and in the news report the boys father said he feared for his son's life. Just so upsetting on so many levels.

  • arkansasmama08
    August 21, 2013 at 3:17 PM
    Wow...this person has no heart or soul. I might actually move just to get away from her..
  • mom18103
    August 21, 2013 at 6:27 PM

     I am a friendly person up to a point but that is no doubt crossing it!!

    Quoting jjamom:

    I was just thinking that the cops are really going to have a problem on their hands when this Mom figures out who sent that letter and decides to find justice on her own!


    Quoting mom18103:

     I would hunt her down & have my own justices


     

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