We were all on board to try for our second child next in a few months then out of no where he decides he wants to wait another year. I am so pissed. Reason, I just found the pefect doctor, I am in perfect health, I am at my ideal weight, I have the perfect health insurance, I love my job and our budget is great. To make matters better our DS in pretty much potty training himself and doing great in daycare. Last time, I listened to him I ended up with sucky insurance, a shitty doctor, and many health problems to follow from the L&D staff messing up. We were all on board and I don't know what happened. He also wants to back out of getting me the house which is fine because the one he wants is bigger. I just don't feel like I'm being valued.
There are reasons why he all of a sudden pulls out. Doesn't make sense. Hmmm. Makes one wonder what he is up to if anything. I'd ask some serious questions and fast. You don't want to have a child if he isn't into having another right now, BUT wanting to know the "why" is acceptable. If he doesn't give a clear answer then there is something deeper going on within "HIM". ask questions.
He says that it's money he's concerned about but we've never been as better off as we are now. He's just cheap in my opinion. It just frustrates me because I just found out that my doctor thinks I have endometriosis so waiting could me no more children