sex talk

[JerzyGurl81]

My 9 year old was caught googling pics of boobs. I have never had a nine year old or a boy until now. Any advise on how to clearly discuss this topic without causeing trauma or discomfort on either end.

[nurse1997]

Have his dad talk to him it will be better than you ;]

[JerzyGurl81]

He doesnt have a dad who is actively involved

[poohbearkfc]

I suppose you could let him know what they are for and that they are not toys. if he has questions he will take it from there.

[OliviasMommy611]

Oh my! Bump

[Janet]

I would tell him that is inappropriate.That is a private body part. He can get in trouble doing that.

[MJP76]

He needs to have his computer rights taken away for inappropriate use.

and then sit him down and start out by asking him why, he wanted to look at boobs. What struck his curiosity? 

Talking about the sexual anatomy should not be an embarrassing subject for parent, and the sex talk should have been give age appropriately from birth. It's part of parenting. You are the parent, suck up your discomfort, and embarrassment, and have a talk with your son. If you are unsure how to do so, then pick up a book. The are a million out there on the subject. Hell, just google it. "How to have  the sex talk with my son?"

[JerzyGurl81]

My issue is that it is normal for the curiosity to be there. But the internet can provide incorrect information. I dont want him to feel like the curiosity is bad. I dont wanna give him too much info, But i want to satisfy the curiosity.

[ms-superwoman]

Quoting MJP76:

He needs to have his computer rights taken away for inappropriate use.

and then sit him down and start out by asking him why, he wanted to look at boobs. What struck his curiosity? 

Talking about the sexual anatomy should not be an embarrassing subject for parent, and the sex talk should have been give age appropriately from birth. It's part of parenting. You are the parent, suck up your discomfort, and embarrassment, and have a talk with your son. If you are unsure how to do so, then pick up a book. The are a million out there on the subject. Hell, just google it. "How to have  the sex talk with my son?"

[JerzyGurl81]

I took the computer privileges away. Thats not my primary concern. I was actually looking for someone with experience with this or something similar time offer me some advise.

[goddess99]

Make sure you use parental locks on your computer.