I honestly don't remember my mom making a big deal out of heels either way, maybe if she had let me wear them earlier I wouldn't be so awkward in them now lol. But with dd, probably around 16 I'll let her wear them
I said 18. But I see a difference in pumps wedge heels and high heels.
i believe at 16 she can wear pumps or wedge heels for special occasions.
Wearing heels, really messes up the spine and the pelvic structure. So, I figure I'll refrain from doing damage to my daughter as long as I have a say so.