Mom to Mom
I am not doing anything. Last time i did do something I had to wait til dd and ds went to bed. DS gets up late at nights so I cant do anything. New years eve I have to go get some things done and they are very important. Then, on new years day have to turn the paper work in. Its for my job so I have to get it done.
My friend wants to make extra cash to watch ds as my mom will have dd but i dont need her and last time someone thats not family watched dd or ds i got in trouble by CPS/SRS so i am not taking any chances.
So I am basically getting things done instead of celebrating the new year. Yay me!
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Nothing... lol. I did something last year with my roommate, younger siblings and father. My son is not quite 3 and i'm a full time single mom, no backup but family. My mom is planning a party for her friends, my sister is partying with her friends and my brother moved away. Oh and my roommate will be with her bf.
My dad's birthday is the 1st and since my mom left him he's been a mess... I will probably spend the holiday trying to cheer him up.
Honestly, this Christmas I finally realized my days of enjoying the holidays are over- now it's all about my son and making the holidays wonderful and memorable for him! and he is still too young to stay up until midnight lol. :P we had THREE turkey dinners (one of which i did cook) i hosted our xmas eve family gathering and made sure he had awesome xmas presents xmas morning and a tasty breakfast. i am DONE freakin celebrating hehehe