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arilolojrsmom
I don't know if I should as???
December 8, 2012 at 10:51 AM

My s/o pay child support and we have money put to the side so if his kids need money for sports or anything we have it and give it to them. So i have been thinking if i should ask my x (father of my 2 girls) if he could help pay for the girls dance. I do get child support.. NO i am not a money hungry bitch.. The girls love to go to dance class. and usually i dont need help with it unitl like now. When i need to have a down payment for their recital dresses. I have been trying different ways on asking him. A part of me doesn't want to ask him cause i know he will tell me..A) I give you cs B) dont i give you enough. Right now he lives in a diffferent state, but is plaining on moving back here to be closer to the girls...i was thinking about waiting till he moves back to ask... What would you ladies do?shrugging

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  • savannahmom2011
    December 8, 2012 at 11:10 AM
    Just ask him straight up money has become tight for our family and the girls wanna do dance can help pay half of it
  • arilolojrsmom
    December 8, 2012 at 11:16 AM
    Just found out its more than what I thought it was gonna be....Ugh guess now I have to call him... wish me luck

    Quoting savannahmom2011:

    Just ask him straight up money has become tight for our family and the girls wanna do dance can help pay half of it
  • luvmybug
    December 8, 2012 at 11:26 AM

    GOOD LUCK!

    Quoting arilolojrsmom:

    Just found out its more than what I thought it was gonna be....Ugh guess now I have to call him... wish me luck

    Quoting savannahmom2011:

    Just ask him straight up money has become tight for our family and the girls wanna do dance can help pay half of it


  • arilolojrsmom
    December 8, 2012 at 11:43 AM
    Thanks I'm gonna need it..

    Quoting luvmybug:

    GOOD LUCK!

    Quoting arilolojrsmom:

    Just found out its more than what I thought it was gonna be....Ugh guess now I have to call him... wish me luck



    Quoting savannahmom2011:

    Just ask him straight up money has become tight for our family and the girls wanna do dance can help pay half of it


  • OliviasMommy611
    December 8, 2012 at 12:27 PM
    I would ask him to split it.
  • arilolojrsmom
    December 8, 2012 at 12:53 PM
    That's what I am going to do. But I have a feeling this is what he is going ..I give x amount of money each month. Why can't you just pay for it. What do you use the money I give you every month for? And its not like I can't afford it but I would like his help to...is that wrong?
  • toybar02
    December 8, 2012 at 9:48 PM
    no thats not wrong, he helped make those babies he needs to support them, not only with child support but in whatever the kids need, its supposed to be 50/50 whether you are together or not, good luck hun
  • ariesmom20
    December 9, 2012 at 11:06 AM
    Good luck
  • arilolojrsmom
    December 9, 2012 at 2:13 PM

    ok so i asked him and he shocked me. 1st he asked how much and i said whatever he can give me.. then he said he doesnt see why no. i fell on the floor..

  • Ms.Maaamaof2
    December 9, 2012 at 2:38 PM

    Just ask!

    Child support is a fraction of a childs living expenses and does not include anything extra for a child to have an enjoyment, unless the custodial parent pays out of pocket.


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