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Do you enjoy entertaining/ having people visit your home?
by splatz
November 14, 2012 at 1:26 PM

Why or why not?


It seems like everyone I know loves having people over. I have always felt awkward/uncomfortable with people being over. My house is never feels clean enough (even if it is spotless). It is a huge relief for me when people go home. I'm pretty sure there is something wrong with me, lol. 

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  • Janet
    by Janet
    November 15, 2012 at 8:54 AM

     I feel the same way you do.

  • Janet
    by Janet
    November 15, 2012 at 8:58 AM

     I also have the dog problem. We have crates. Or if it is nice they can go outside and play. We have a fenced in back yard,

    Quoting goddess99:

    I don't care to have people over either. We have a large dog who gets very excited so we have to put her in another room and I hate that.

     

  • mrskathleen
    November 15, 2012 at 9:12 AM

    NA , PPL COME IN UR HOUSE AND THEN GO HOME AND TALK ABOUT IT . THEY ALWAYS SPOT SOMETHING U MISSED AND ALTHOUGH IT DIDNT SEEM DIRTY AFTER THEY LEFT=U FIND AREALLY DIRTY MISSED SPOT AND THEY WANT TO HELP U WITHIT! I TELL THEM IF THEY WANT TO CRITIZE STAY THE HELL AWAY!!! AND I DONT APPRECIATE U LOOKING FOR  STUFF TO SAY ABOUT MY  HOUSE. DID U COME TO VISIT ME ARE OR U HERE FOR A SPOT INSPECTION? THE HOUSE IS OLD AND SOMETHING IS ALWAYS BROKE OR GETTING READY TO SELFDESTRUCT..MRSKATHLEEN

  • jbirdsladie27
    November 15, 2012 at 9:23 AM

     I'm the same as you OP, the whole scenario STRESSES me out, always a huge relief when everyone goes home.

  • goddess99
    November 15, 2012 at 10:34 AM

    lol she does want love but most people can't take the blow of a 80 pound dog running full speed at them lol

    Quoting splatz:

    Aww but she is soo cute! She just wants love too. :)
    Quoting goddess99:

    I don't care to have people over either. We have a large dog who gets very excited so we have to put her in another room and I hate that.


  • delanna6two
    November 15, 2012 at 10:51 AM

    lol....I like people but hosting is not my favorite either....you're not alone....

    Quoting splatz:

    Why or why not?


    It seems like everyone I know loves having people over. I have always felt awkward/uncomfortable with people being over. My house is never feels clean enough (even if it is spotless). It is a huge relief for me when people go home. I'm pretty sure there is something wrong with me, lol. 


  • timefor2
    November 15, 2012 at 11:09 AM

    I actually prefer to go to someone else's house, but don't mind having friends/family here as well.

  • LOVES67
    by LOVES67
    November 15, 2012 at 12:28 PM
    Yes I love having people over..
  • Knightquester
    November 15, 2012 at 12:29 PM

    There are only a few people I don't mind coming to my home because their visit isn't about me entertaining them rather it's a visit and we're all relaxed enough around them, they around us that it's not forced, stressful or dull.

  • splatz
    by splatz
    November 15, 2012 at 2:19 PM

    I think I probably wouldn't mind having people over as much if our house was bigger. We just have a couch & no other seating in the living room. So if we have guests over we have to sit on the floor while the guests get the couch. Or sit on kitchen chairs. I guess my home just isn't fit for entertaining. Oh well, works for me! 

    Quoting timefor2:

    I actually prefer to go to someone else's house, but don't mind having friends/family here as well.


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