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How Does Your Garden Grow?
April 25, 2012 at 12:00 AM

One of the things I've loved most about writing here is hearing your answers and advice. Something came up repeatedly in the comments on my most recent post about buying organic food, and I took it as a bit of a sign. You see, in response to a question I raised in my post focused on buying organic food, a number of people referenced GROWING their own fruits and vegetables. And like that, a light bulb went off...

I grew up in the suburbs, and my parents had a fantastic garden that they carefully tended to each spring and summer. We also had a cherry tree, and a strawberry patch. It was amazing, and I have a lot of happy memories from my childhood, helping to plant, weed, and of course eat the produce we had helped to grow.

I moved to New York City for college, and right into a cramped apartment. This became my new normal for nearly the next ten years. My husband and I got married, and both of our kids spent their first few years in apartments. We moved to our first house less than a year ago. It's been great for all the obvious reasons, and we've spent the past months making it ours. Now, we're ready to move on to the "extras;" the fun stuff like redecorating, and prettying up, and not the responsible, boring essentials you know, "OMG WE MUST REPLACE THIS AGED TOILET ASAP."

One of those "extras" about which I'm now fantasizing is a garden. I remember how much fun it was as a kid, and I'd love to have that same experience with my own children. It would be a wonderful way to teach them some basic responsibility, and give them a sense of where food comes from. It would also be a great way to get even more fresh fruits and vegetables into our diet without a ton of extra expense or effort. We even have a perfect corner in our backyard that I have my eye on.

But about that effort...for the gardeners among you, where do we begin? What are the hardest fruit and vegetables to kill? Given our location (New Jersey), I know we're not going to have much luck with a lemon grove or an avocado tree, but I would think that strawberries (like the ones I had growing up), tomatoes, and cucumbers (all of which my kids love to eat) should be (relatively) straightforward to get going. I right?  Or am I underestimating this whole undertaking?

Do you have a garden? Do your kids participate with it? Are there any other recommendations (specific things that are easy to grow, timing, practical advice, etc.) that you have for us?  


  • bamababe1975
    April 25, 2012 at 10:45 AM

     No, I don't have a garden. I simply do not have the time necessary to tend one, but I would love to.

  • bamababe1975
    April 25, 2012 at 10:46 AM

     My aunt has a small garden with just the veggies you mentioned here. She started it when her kids were little and now that they've moved out, they're more eager to help her with the garden than when they lived there with her, lol. Apparently, veggies cost money in the market, did you know? LOL ;)

    Quoting Bmat:

    I had a garden during the years that the kids were small. They were not happy about helping in it. I even made them each a small garden and got them child-sized gardening tools and easy to grow veggies, but they had no interest. Easy to grow veggies are lettuce, beets, radishes, beans, squash,  cherry tomatoes.


  • MamaBear2cubs
    April 25, 2012 at 10:57 AM

    Mine do not have a garden yet, I think next year we will attempt a small one.

  • starreyedcutie
    April 25, 2012 at 11:18 AM
    Yes this year we have a veggi garden and were growing our own pumpkins for Halloween
  • KaylaMillar
    April 25, 2012 at 11:20 AM
    I wish we had a garden.
  • dusky_rose
    April 25, 2012 at 11:34 AM

    I want to plant a garden this spring. I haven't gotten started yet. My younger brother grows a garden and he has had luck with zucchini and carrots and oregano, but we live in Washington state. I want to grow corn and sunflowers and peas and radishes too.

  • slw123
    by slw123
    April 25, 2012 at 11:36 AM

    We have a few veggies sprouting right now.

  • momkaribg
    April 25, 2012 at 11:46 AM

     We dont have a garden. I did when i was growing up and loved to help my Mom in it.

  • LancesMom
    April 25, 2012 at 12:31 PM

    We are working on ours as we speak. I need another load of top soil, but I plan on having sugar snap peas, bush cukes, tomotoes, squash (summer) and peppers. (Sweet, green, red, yellow)

  • MamaMandee
    April 25, 2012 at 12:32 PM

    I dont, we keep talking about doing one but have not yet in the 3 years we have been living here. Both my MIL & SIL do and we often gets lots of veggies from them. My kids love to go over to their houses and help in the garden. 

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