over the weekend, me and my boys and my boyfriend went on a mini-vacay.. while walking thru the aquarium, every chance I got I was kissing him and grabbing his butt.. not in front of people, secretly, like when we would turn a corner or something.. and he goes
"you're a little but pervy in public.."
I was thinking WTF? Is this uncommon? Do people not want to touch their SOs?? I'm confused. I mean we've been together for 2 1/2 years, but I only recently introduced him to my kids and my family, so up until the past 8 months, we havent spent a ton of time outside of quiet dates and late nights together..
Am I weird?
by shadow_larkApril 5, 2012 at 12:42 AM
meh, dh has never been big on pda. something here and there, but not a whole lot. i think it just depends on where you live and how you grow up.
by Pammi86April 5, 2012 at 11:34 AMMaybe he just doesn't like PDA!
by goddess99April 5, 2012 at 2:35 PM
Me and my dh do it =)
by nicoal4April 6, 2012 at 12:23 AM
Um every one is different but my hubby is a pda guy not over board but he isn't shy about it.
Df and I are pda-aholics!! Im not like unzipping his pants and grabbing it but he grabs my butt kisses me holds me from behind etc
Coming from a past relationship where i was only shown attention behind closed doors its refreshing and in a way i feel safe.... that may sound weird but the little touches he gives me lets me know hes not ashamed and hes there, hes got my back haha:)
by blondie0234April 6, 2012 at 12:33 AM
I don't think so..we are so affectionate in public! Love it :)
i think you are being weird to do that kinda thing in public. .
we do pda, but just a little hand holding, and kissing.
you shouldn't be grabbing his butt or anything in public, wether you think it's in private public or not. there are cameras and people all over, and i'm sure people don't want to see it, and sure don't want their kids to see it.
by RMsladyApril 6, 2012 at 12:55 AMMy dh and I do it. After 4 years of marriage and 2 children later what's wrong with showing people how in love we still are? I hope yo still be doing it 20 years from now. We don't over do it though like 5 minute make outs sessions lol that's more giddy high school girl stuff to me.