Did you get married and then have kids?
Did you have kids and then get married?
Did you have kids and are still with the guy but haven't gotten married?
Did I miss an option? LOL
I'm just curious
We were married for 6 years before we got pregnant. It didn't take us long to get pregnant either. We were young when we got married and wanted to wait until we were more settled down and financially ready for kids.
We dated for 4 years, got married, then a little over 5 1/2 years after getting married we had our first child. We've been married for a little over 16 years and our oldest is 10 1/2.
Kid and then marriage.