Mom to Mom
Okay so my dd is 6 months old and we don't want another till she's at least 3.
Well the reason I say that is because I'm almost a week late and so and I aren't ready for two babies in diapers.
But is it wrong of me to secretly want to be pregnant?
July 23,2011
Well I'm not pregnant =/ A part of me wished I was but I'm kind of glad I'm not because I work full-time and I'm also a full-time college student and i already feel like I miss out enough on my dd's life and having another lo right now would just make it a little more stressful. Especially since we're also in the process of trying to buy a house.
I just thought I'd share the news that aunt flow visited this morning and is staying till Monday =/ Thank you for the great advice and supposrt thought!!! I'm glad i can turn to you ladies for an ear to listen =)
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You have nothing to feel guilty about.
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I miss being pregnant =/ I guess I'm just worried because of my inlaws! When first found out I was pregnant so waited till I was 5 months to tell them and his mom is always telling him you need to have a good job and be married before thinking about having kids. She's so for that, that she even wanted a paternity test after dd was born to see if it was her sons! Now that thought don't even cross her mind. *sigh* lots of issues there!
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What's 'wrong' got to do with anything?
Biologically and socially, pregnancy is Good News. It's totally normal to feel ambivilant about it, to be shocked, to be elated... You're only in change of what you think, not what you feel.
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I don't see anything wrong with it. A part of me wants to be pregnant! Its just the whole mil thing!
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Awww. Nothing is wrong with that. -
It's not wrong at all! You have nothing to feel guilty about.
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LOL. Baby dust? -
Personally I wouldn't worry. Since your little one is only 6 mos old your cycle is probabally not completely regular yet. Wait a few weeks and then test. If you don't want another for awhile try going on BC!
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Baby's come in their own time. Either way you will feel all kinds of things that are normal and may seem contradictory.
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Baby dust!?!?
Quoting lovinangels:
LOL. Baby dust?