Okay so my dd is 6 months old and we don't want another till she's at least 3.
Well the reason I say that is because I'm almost a week late and so and I aren't ready for two babies in diapers.
But is it wrong of me to secretly want to be pregnant?
Well I'm not pregnant =/ A part of me wished I was but I'm kind of glad I'm not because I work full-time and I'm also a full-time college student and i already feel like I miss out enough on my dd's life and having another lo right now would just make it a little more stressful. Especially since we're also in the process of trying to buy a house.
I just thought I'd share the news that aunt flow visited this morning and is staying till Monday =/ Thank you for the great advice and supposrt thought!!! I'm glad i can turn to you ladies for an ear to listen =)
by Peanutx3July 18, 2011 at 11:22 AM
You have nothing to feel guilty about.
July 18, 2011 at 12:29 PMI miss being pregnant =/ I guess I'm just worried because of my inlaws! When first found out I was pregnant so waited till I was 5 months to tell them and his mom is always telling him you need to have a good job and be married before thinking about having kids. She's so for that, that she even wanted a paternity test after dd was born to see if it was her sons! Now that thought don't even cross her mind. *sigh* lots of issues there!
by LindaClementJuly 18, 2011 at 12:32 PM
What's 'wrong' got to do with anything?
Biologically and socially, pregnancy is Good News. It's totally normal to feel ambivilant about it, to be shocked, to be elated... You're only in change of what you think, not what you feel.
July 18, 2011 at 1:10 PMI don't see anything wrong with it. A part of me wants to be pregnant! Its just the whole mil thing!
by Charli627July 18, 2011 at 1:45 PMAwww. Nothing is wrong with that.
by StregaJuly 18, 2011 at 1:47 PM
It's not wrong at all! You have nothing to feel guilty about.
by lovinangelsJuly 18, 2011 at 1:55 PMLOL. Baby dust?
by betsystipoJuly 18, 2011 at 2:10 PM
Personally I wouldn't worry. Since your little one is only 6 mos old your cycle is probabally not completely regular yet. Wait a few weeks and then test. If you don't want another for awhile try going on BC!
by LiansmommieJuly 19, 2011 at 1:42 AM
Baby's come in their own time. Either way you will feel all kinds of things that are normal and may seem contradictory.
July 19, 2011 at 1:45 AMBaby dust!?!?
LOL. Baby dust?