July 4, 2011 at 10:07 AMthanks ladies.
by betsystipoJuly 4, 2011 at 11:30 AM
Oh yeah at that age - they can pull their own weight for sure! Rather than have your SO talk to them - you tell them! One thing I've learned is to say - would you like to do this or this? That way there is no option....they have to do something! kwim? Hope you feel better mama - you are almost there!
by janitablueJuly 4, 2011 at 11:44 AM
Man momma, I feel for you.
Don't sweat the small stuff do what needs to be done keep you legs up.
by rkolomsJuly 4, 2011 at 5:34 PM
You need to stop doing anything for the slackers: no food, no laundry, no car keys, no cell phone. Give them leases for their rooms, with your terms; also give them the apartment listings.
Good luck, and stop being a pushover.
by LindaClementJuly 4, 2011 at 5:49 PM
Nothing like being depleted and then over-taxed. What are you doing these days to take care of yourself, and shorten your list of things to do?
July 4, 2011 at 9:01 PMone pays rent and another is about to. in the past couple days, I laid down the law and my SO had nothing to say except, though I thought u were harsh I am glad cuz their mom couldnt do anything with them. so I said well what about their dad? it takes two and I dont have baby daddy drama for this very reason. I am raising a man not a boy. a dirty boy makes a dirty man. and I for one am not down for that sh--! he had nothing to say. see he knows how I am but I went through too much so now I am just taking my (for lack of a better word)power back. So thanks ladies for listening.