my relationship with my dad is great. With my mom - very rocky. She's my mom and I love her, but she has never liked who I am, and I have never liked who she is. for as long as I can remember it has always felt like we were on opposite sides of the universe.
My dad passed away in 2004 but we had a good relationship -- we were both stubborn and locked horns a bit but only because there was alot of caring of both ends. Me and my mom have a good relationship although I wish I could see her more.
Love hate relationship with both. I've always been a daddy's girl but my mom wears the pants it seems like so whatever she says goes. She resents me a lot..... My son has special needs due to an accident last year were a 40lb tv fell on him so she blames me. Some days she thinks he has psychological issues other days she says he just needs to be disciplined. He's in therapy and is medicated. I just wish she'd stop making everything about her and support us regardless of what we choose to do and whatever happens.
I have a great relationship with my dad. My mom? Not so much. I never have been and never will be, pretty enough, smart enough, skinny enough, popular enough. and so on for her. I have a lot of issues with the way she has treated me. If she and my dad weren't married, I probbaly would not see her at all.