No idea ! I had our custody agreement written up and he didn't even read it ! I could have had anything in it , I didn't but if I was a bitch I could have screwed him over. Ne wife said someting once about why we dont have it in there for alternating holidays I told her I doidnt relize BF thought it was a problem.
I don't think there is anything wrong with being clueless about certain things, the problem is in choosing to remain clueless. Granted, I can understand (I guess) a father who made poor decisions in relationship to his child with his Ex being forever condemned to lesser parent status with that child. I guess he will apply the lessons learnt to his other children that he is equal parent to.
I think there are as many idiot men as women out there...DH has a beautiful CO set up that he and his attorney did just fine on...I've read it so I know what DHs rights, responsibilities, and schedule is for my own sake...BM has never even read her own divorce decree/CO, DH has to remind her all the time what's in it...she starts screaming about what her rights are and he has to refer her back to what the court did indeed take away and why he is making certain decisions or telling her no to something...he reminds her to read it so she understands...she never has...no gender has a monopoly on idiocy.