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TJandKarasMom
FB...my curiosity...
February 1, 2013 at 7:43 PM
I have access to BMs fb. This is how I know she got pregnant, was due in January, and also how I know lots of other things we wouldn't know otherwise. (I started looking when I heard rumors of her plans to visit the state but she wasn't making any plans to see SD, a few years ago)...I've used it to just check to see if she is planning to take SD or at least see her or whatever else.

I haven't looked since before Christmas, when I just checked to see if she would be coming 'home' to our state for Christmas at all. She hasn't seen SD in over a year and hasn't called in 10 months.

I want to look bc I'm nosey, but it also pisses me off every time I think about her having ANOTHER baby. Take care of the two you have damnit! And I want a baby damnit! Lol. So just tell me I have no need to look. Remind me that there is no reason and I don't need to be nosey. Or do you think I should look? Would you look?

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  • PumpkinSpice8
    February 1, 2013 at 7:52 PM
    I would block her so you can't look. Seems like its making you miserable and you really aren't getting much out of it. :( I do wish you lots of baby dust though! :)
  • liltigersmom
    February 1, 2013 at 7:57 PM
    If its making you misserable, than don't.

  • saywhat2102
    February 1, 2013 at 8:02 PM
    Facebook :-/
  • MommySabs
    February 1, 2013 at 8:04 PM
    Step away from the Facebook!
  • knoxmomof2
    February 1, 2013 at 8:04 PM

    Eh, it's tough... especially with your situation (sounds like there's kind of a need to know things since you're not in the loop and she's absentee and all). I used to do it with BM, and learned quite a bit, but ultimately I cut myself off b/c I realized how much drama it was stirring up inside me. It wasn't doing me any good... good luck!

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