Obviously, for me and my family, our experience has been this past year. It's been a horrible year, but Leigh and I are coming out stronger than we were before. That's saying quite a bit since we've been together for 15 years and have been through ALOT together. I'm sure my kids are coming out stronger...at least the girls are. Kaden has been through some bad things, and he's stronger now although we cannot talk about it with him since he's going through speech therapy and no where near where a 4 year old should be speech wise yet.