We have division of labor. I am the only one in our household who can :1. put a new liner in the trashcans. 2. Clean litterboxes 3. Do the laundry. dh thinks he can, but he keeps demonstrating otherwise.
Dh usually:1. Makes dinner, takes trash out.
I do: everything else ...
He is better at quickly organizing things, so sometimes he .picks up a room . He also doeos outside chores like power washing the deck, leaf blowing, etc.
Basically with both of us working fulltime, it's who ever has a chance to do it. I still my things I do as does he. Mind you we have been married for almost 30 years, thats what a marriage is working together..
My husband does all the laundry (I haven't turned on my washer or folded an item of clothing in 20 years) and cleans the bathrooms; we share dishes, vaccuum, floors, dusting, general cleaning up and grocery shopping; he cooks 1 night a week, I cook the other 6 and I do all the finances. We both work full time.