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GOOD MORNING I WANTED TO KNOW FROM YOU GALS WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT A MARRIED MAN IN HIS LATE 30S WITH CHILDREN. SHOULD HE STILL BE HANGING OUT AT NIGHT CLUBS EVERY OTHER WEEKEND ??? I WANTED TO KNOW FROM OTHERS TO SEE WHAT THEY THOUGHT???
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I can see a guys night out once a month but no he shouldnt be. He should be home with his family
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not THAT many times he shouldn't be going out. JMO, though.
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I wouldn't like it if my hubby were -
Well what is he doing in these night clubs? Is he going out with single guy friends? Is it both weekend nights--Fri and Sat? It does sound like a lot to me....
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My personal opinion is once a man is married or in a committed relationship he shouldn't be going to bars/clubs without his SO. If there is kids involved, she didn't make the kids alone so she shouldn't have to care for them alone. Does she have a ladies night with the girls?
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I think he has some growing up to do.
Hope his kids don't grow up before he does!
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Agreed
Quoting Texascandee:
My personal opinion is once a man is married or in a committed relationship he shouldn't be going to bars/clubs without his SO. If there is kids involved, she didn't make the kids alone so she shouldn't have to care for them alone. Does she have a ladies night with the girls?
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I have a qustion... Is the man 'amorous' when he gets home after his night in the club?
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I wouldn't mind if my guy went out with his friends. What I wouldn't like is if it happened all the time, and if it was secretive. If he came home talking about who was there, what happened, etc. I would be fine. But if he came home exhausted, and didn't tell you what was going on I would definitely be worried. At the same time, you should be wlecome to come and go to the club with him as you please without any hesitation from him. If you sense he wouldn't feel comfortable with you there..I would be really worried. Going out and having fun is perfectly acceptable for adults to do. I would want to go with my man to the club.. you know dress up, dance and have fun!.
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If his wife is okay with it. Every relationship has different dynamics. Everything someone does apart from their partner isn't evil.