that i kept my dd ( i was 16 and the father was a douchebag ) (good choice. she is my LIFE ). who to marry ( effed up that one ). if i should get a divorce ( right choice ). and now who i am going to make my life with. i AM engaged to the most wonderful man, though. those are just a few of the decisions. i could go on and on, but these are the most recent and important right now.