I want to have her do something to "give" to others and show love for Christmas.
Does anybody have a 5 year old help with volunteer work?
Or maybe we can do a special gift program.
I was going to suggest doing something like this as well. Another thought is to drop off toys at a homeless shelter where there are kids.
My kids pick 3 kids from the Angel tree at JCPenny every year. We also clean their toy box out right before Christmas and drop the toys off at the Women's Shelter.