That would be music to my ears. I get the biggest guilt trip ever when something comes up, like a kid gets sick, and we can't go. He makes it seem like it's MY fault. I mean, yeah I'd like to not go, but I'd rather go than be home with sick kids!
Stay home, just the 4 of us. We had an invitation to go to SILs. She does it like an open house and family comes and goes. I left it up to dh and he'd rather stay home which is fine by me.