We usually try to post flags at whatever nearby cemetary we're around too, but didn't this year either. This was a particularly rough year for some reason so we made a little memorial in the back yard instead that we left up for the whole day. We did purchase flowers for the unmarked graves this year either.
We went to my parents nuts house for the weekend. Most years we go to the cemetery, either the huge National Cemetery in L.A., or our local one and post the flags. We skipped that this year but did our own remembrance with my parents.