This year even though his average is 80+ this year in all the things he did do...
KEEP IN MIND THE WORDING HERE.. THAT WHICH HE DID DO.. is 80%
But 40% of the material that we were supposed to do he litterally had to do over and over and over again..
And we have only finished 50-60% of the materials.
Why you ask..
Litterally he has rebelled at every turn.
He will sit with his head in his hands twirling his pencil. He will tell me he did the work.. Then when I go to correct it.. I litterally have found doodles on the lines.(More than one time!) I have tried incentives, I have tried downright bribes. (Upto and encluding 2 weeks of camp this summer, a summer pass to theme parks and even The new wiiU) He just refused to co-operate! So I have told him he is going to have summer school. And that we will start next year with a different curriculum but that he will be doing 4th grade work again as I refuse to let him move on to new materials until he shows he is competant and has mastered the stuff from this year.
Then I also told him that starting today if he starts to act out/ say how much he hates doing school work he will be sat in a corner and left there all day long! When I say all day long.. I mean from the time he wakes up to the time he returns to bed aside from trips to the bathroom or meals. I also told him that work that I know is not up to his abilities will bring about 1 hour of the same sitting..
I know that some of you ladies won't agree with these measures.. However after an entire school year of him not getting his work done, and not co-operating.. I know it is being a bit harsh.. atleast to some! I am an old fashioned kind of momma.. I don't tolerate disobediance and I have tried everything this year to not have to get to this level.. But when he insists on making litterally the entire home a den of anger, frustration and misery for the past almost 12 months (I started him last year on homeschooling just after he got out of public school.. Hoping we could get him caught up) so we have been homeschooling him every monday-friday since June... with the exception of 3(1week)vacations. So like I said he has made us all miserable trying to fight the homeschooling.. And I have decided he won't be given the liberty of succeeding in his attempts.
Ok well I talked with a local woman who has been homeschooling here in NY for some time! To boot her husband is very up to date on laws.. So they helped me know about the legal requirements of nys! And I have been herassing myself and my son for most of the year for almost no dang reason!
So were gonna do some morning work each day during the summer but aside from some catchup stuff were taking it easy starting monday!
I will be failing him still But I have informed him it is as much my fault as his.
Thanks to all(well most of you anyhow) you ladies for letting me post this and for giving some great constructive criticizm...
by oredebMay 15, 2013 at 12:27 PM
gona miss our posts celticdragon77!! hey i thought your reading level post got some good ideas!! anyway good luck to ya!! and keep homeschool fun for you and kids!
U gotta do what u gotta do. If he were in school behaving this way, he would fail w/o question. For help in the future, r there any other homeschooled kids in ur area? Perhaps having a school day together with them once in a while would motivate him? I have only just started,this journey and ds is only prek so I'm sure there will be a lot of tears & tough decisions down the road. Good luck