Hoping the night gets better for you and him. Hang in there!
Quoting Angelmevans:I hope so. His therapist has given us some techniques to use during these times which help sometimes. She told us it is a new strategy she learned.
When they are acting mean and disrespectful that is "mean jean" , "rock brain" holds onto things and does not let it go such as thoughts.
I'm sorry mama...hugs!
Do whatever it takes to get his mind off the "target" of the tantrum. If you can get his attention onto something else, it will help.