Ok, I am trying out new things to get my kids to eat healthier, my husband does not eat healthy either, will not eat vegetables, just like a kid... Well, last night I made spaghetti and puréed some squash, zucchini, and carrots and mixed it in the sauce so you couldn't taste it. It was a huge hit, everybody loved it. Well, this morning I told dh that I had hid vegetables in there and now he says, oh, that was the after taste... If I hadn't said anything, he wouldn't have known... Well, his ex wife tried to kill him and herself by poisoning his food. They were together for only a year, I have been with dh for 3 years and he knows I would never do such a horrible thing... So, he says if I hide vegetables in his food again, he won't eat it. Is it my fault for not telling him because I want him to eat healthier and that's the only way I know how to it? Or is he in the right for me not telling him what's in his food?
I'd still do it, what's he going to do never eat ANYTHING you cook again, just in case? That's silly. He's not going to know the difference if you put healthy veggies in something or not.
I don't think it's wrong of you to do without telling him, but I wouldnt tell him Iam goiing to do and not just tell him either, that defeats the purpose. But if you feel guilty for taking extra good care of him by making sure he eats healthier because you have to sneak to do it then just dont do it anymore. And let him and the kids eat unhealthy instead.