Love & Marriage

Meena20
ew gross
by Meena20
March 20, 2013 at 12:14 PM
I know this is fucked up of me but i still need to let it out. I dont look forward on having any kind of sexual intercourse with my hubby now cuz he is getting too fat to the point where its grosses me out. His fat belly is in the way of his dick witch makes having sex in any position difficult. Im atracted to him but not atracted to him physicaly any more. His fam, friends and i are supporying him to lose some weight cuz of his diabetes. I know that when a couple grow old together their beauty and looks on the outside will fade away, but i was expectinf that to happen when we are older, not while we are still in our mid 20's!!

Replies

  • goddiddlyumshis
    March 20, 2013 at 12:15 PM
    poor guy.
  • Meena20
    by Meena20
    March 20, 2013 at 12:18 PM
    Yea but he doesnt want to do anything about his health so its his fault. We still have sex, its just difficult and frustrating.
  • beeky
    by beeky
    March 20, 2013 at 12:37 PM

    How would you feel if were the other way around, and he didn't want to have sex with you because you were too fat?

  • GirlWSemiAuto
    March 20, 2013 at 12:41 PM
    Is it lack of physical attraction or the actual physical barrier that's making it so undesirable? If it's the latter then I understand your frustration. I would just suggest a lot of foreplay. For instance, I would say, "Alright love, I need your help getting in the mood. Your mission is to make me beg for it."
  • shadow_lark
    March 20, 2013 at 12:44 PM
    I thought you weren't having sex anymore because his estranged wife came back?
  • goddiddlyumshis
    March 20, 2013 at 12:46 PM
    o_O

    Quoting shadow_lark:

    I thought you weren't having sex anymore because his estranged wife came back?
  • Anryan
    by Anryan
    March 20, 2013 at 12:51 PM

    confusedthis should be interesting!


    Quoting shadow_lark:

    I thought you weren't having sex anymore because his estranged wife came back?


  • AlannaMaria
    March 20, 2013 at 1:02 PM
    Have you told him how you feel?
  • shadow_lark
    March 20, 2013 at 1:08 PM
    Maybe I've got her confused with someone else, but I could have sworn i saw a post like that from her a few weeks back.

    Quoting Anryan:

    confusedthis should be interesting!


    Quoting shadow_lark:

    I thought you weren't having sex anymore because his estranged wife came back?


  • ReadWriteLuv
    March 20, 2013 at 1:11 PM

    Hey, I'm not hating on you for this. I get it. Bouncing off a belly isn't cool. 

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