I know this is fucked up of me but i still need to let it out. I dont look forward on having any kind of sexual intercourse with my hubby now cuz he is getting too fat to the point where its grosses me out. His fat belly is in the way of his dick witch makes having sex in any position difficult. Im atracted to him but not atracted to him physicaly any more. His fam, friends and i are supporying him to lose some weight cuz of his diabetes. I know that when a couple grow old together their beauty and looks on the outside will fade away, but i was expectinf that to happen when we are older, not while we are still in our mid 20's!!
Is it lack of physical attraction or the actual physical barrier that's making it so undesirable? If it's the latter then I understand your frustration. I would just suggest a lot of foreplay. For instance, I would say, "Alright love, I need your help getting in the mood. Your mission is to make me beg for it."