Tease him with touches and kisses for a day or two before he gets any. Set the alarm for the middle of the night and wake him up. Make an obscene call to him in the middle of the day. I givehim a bath with candles and bubbles and a massage. Mail romantic or sexy cards to him at the house. Surprise him with an overnight in the backyard (we have no neighbors) I set up dinner and bedding. We've been married 22 years and I don't think we've ever had a slow week! I still tell him how sexy he is and always tell him I love him. I also like alot of the other answers you ladies gave.
We sext a lot and then I like to throw a little spark in there. Like the other day I told him he needed to come home because we had an emergency when he walked in the door I was waiting in thigh highs. However my tiny cock blocks prevented sex :( lol