If you got into a really bad fight one that many mean and hurtful things were said even to go as far as saying I don't know why I married you or such and such.... Or the thought of your marriage going down the pooper, Have you ever stopped to think back to the day you said I do and remember why you said I do or asked him?
Not that we were fighting but he was stressed (he has quit drinking and so far its not easy all he talks about is relapse) so I asked him... Lover.... The day we got married you looked into my eyes as I said my vows to you I noticed that you started crying. What were you thinking and feeling at that moment? He replied a while later and said more love and happiness than he can remember in a long time. So I asked him if he wanted that back and he said yes. So I told him then he has to be strong and fight the urge! It worked he didn't drink!!