In my family, the men make sure their women are happy and taken care of. The woman comes first. On my husband's side of the family, the women make sure the men are taken care of. The man comes first. This is the reason why I feel that MY needs are always put on the back burner. It's tough. And I was only making a joke with the gold star chart. I know better than to try that in reality! He is just always expecting me to be so proud of him for everything but I don't get any recognition. I guess it all goes back to the way he was raised. Why should I get recognition? I am the woman, it is my JOB to take care of the husband, kids, and all of the chores. And to never complain...
Haha thats very true!
LOL I think you should do it!! Honestly this is a LOT of men. They want acknowledgement that they accomplished something! They constantly seek approval. They are like kids in a way.
(not trying to sound mean.. just honest LOL)
by armywife0424February 15 at 5:46 AMI think the chat would be insulting. He probably feels unappreciated and is looking for you to notice him. My husband and I struggled with this too. Neither was giving praise because we both felt unappreciated. Talk to him about it.
by TexasWifeFebruary 15 at 7:39 AM
Just a little thank you will do. The gold chart will belittle him as pp have said. It will cause a arguement in your marriage. I know it can be frustrating at times. I use to think that my husband never praised me until I noticed his praises are never verbal and if they are they are sort of weird. Such as when I was a sahm he would say "I am so glad I have this place to come home to."