I kinda have a sitaution right now that I am really struggling with. My husband and I are happily married. He is awesome in the bedroom and I love him with all my heart. We have a child together and for that and many other reasons I would never ever leave him for another man. I've had a situation come up where a friend from many years ago has expressed an interest in me and I am fond of him. Problem lies in the fact that he is married and I happen to be friends with his wife and children. He claims that he is happily married too, but something tells me that that is not the case. I've explained to him that I am not a home wrecker and I will never and have no interest in leaving my husband for him. I want this to be purely a sex no strings attached arrangement. Can this be possible with a married man? I am super afraid that he might leave his wife and confess that he wants to be with me and I just can't have this happen. I care for his wife to much to have that happen. Am I playing with fire? I am super confused and would like some advice. I kinda want him to tell me he was just playing around and go back home to his wife where he belongs and maybe just keep this as a friends situation. We have been texting some pretty explicit stuff to each other, but no plans to really hook-up in person as he knows I have family obligations ans so does he. HELP! We have an OPEN MARRIAGE.
Do you seriously need to ask advice about this? 99% of affairs are found out, so if you did sleep with this guy chances are you too will be caught and you would end up with a divorce, angry child, angry friend and an ex lover...is it really worth it?
If you love your husband and would never leave him, why the hell would you even consider to have sex with another man, married or not. You are more worried about betraying HIS wife over you betraying YOUR husband? Yeah that makes complete sense.
Dude!!! Why would you even consider putting his marriage AND yours in jeopardy!!!!?????
If you cared anything for your life and his, you would walk away. Obviously you are not as in love w/ your husband and children as you say...If your willing to lose everything to sleep with someone your "fond" of.
If you have to ask "Should I"..Then you are thinking and contemplating screwing up your life for sex. SMH......Stupid...just plain STUPID.