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katnip5
I'm so done with Facebook!!
by katnip5
February 2, 2013 at 6:59 PM
Me and my SO both have FB. I'm pretty private so I only allow friends and family on my page and he's a total social butterfly so he pretty much adds whoever request him. I went on his page a few times and saw that they're some women on his page showing a lot of there "assets". After a while it started to bug me because we just had a baby and I feel that it's inappropriate so I asked if he knew the girls and he said no. I felt that they should be deleted and it turned into an argument so he did it out of anger and blocked me from his friends list. I was pissed because I felt like his fb is so important to him that he needs to hide who's on his page from me so he doesn't have to hear it, I mean if they're not family or friends and you just added them then it shouldn't be a problem unfriending them but to him it was such a big deal so I got upset and deleted him off my page. Im just tired of dealing with all the b.s. am I wrong? It's really bugging me that it's such a big deal to him.

Replies

  • GELiz
    by GELiz
    February 2, 2013 at 7:00 PM

    NOpe, he's ajerk.

  • Nicole1357
    February 2, 2013 at 7:03 PM

    Yes, that is absurd. I'm more of a social butterfly and have a lot of male friends. If any of them made my husband uncomfortable, I definitely would delete them especially if I did not know them personally.

  • JeremysMom
    February 2, 2013 at 7:05 PM
    He probably feels like because you are insecure then he is being punished.
  • PrincessButton
    February 2, 2013 at 7:05 PM

    My SO and I deleted ours months ago. We weren't having any problems but it just seemed like a waste of time. I've seen it cause a lot of unessasary stress in others relationships and it just isnt worth it. Can pople have FB and be adult about things yes but not many do. I don't really care that you've been to the gym every day this week nor do I care to see the results of tight buns. You got wasted last night and need to tell the world? Wow, that is someone I can respect, NOT! FB isnothing but people looking for attention in my opinion.

  • Mom7142
    by Mom7142
    February 2, 2013 at 7:06 PM
    Stick to your guns!
  • momtimesx4
    February 2, 2013 at 7:06 PM

    Most of those people with a pair of tits as profile photo are scams and use tits to get people to friend them and then they datamine/spam away.

  • MADMomma1975a
    February 2, 2013 at 7:06 PM

    I feel your pain there sister.  My husband got real big into fb right around the time I was pregs with our first & it became a REALLY BIG problem in our relationship.  Unfortunately, I dont have any advice about getting him to give up his account or culling some of the inappropriate "friends" because it's still a thorn in my side

  • theirmommy04
    February 2, 2013 at 7:08 PM
    His reaction makes me suspicious...
  • brannew
    by brannew
    February 2, 2013 at 7:08 PM

    Facebook ruins many relationships.  Just ask any divorce lawyer.  Since he blocked you, the mother of his child, it shows how immature he is and I would question your relationship.  Good Luck.

  • brannew
    by brannew
    February 2, 2013 at 7:11 PM

     

    And she is being punished for him feeding her insecurity......and the cycle goes round.....

    Quoting JeremysMom:

    He probably feels like because you are insecure then he is being punished.


     

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