What are your thoughts on it?
I'm sure this has been before. I know it's a hot topic.
I'll put a poll up.
Thanks everyone who voted. I've wanted to do a poll for awhile and get some decent numbers. I appreciate all the input!
- Only group members can vote in this poll.
- 51% - Totally fine whenever
- 9% - Only okay if I am there
- 6% - Only okay if we aren't together
- 26% - Never okay
- 6% - Other, there is always other
by meangreen18January 29 at 1:29 PM
our sex life is not like it used to be nowadays with 2 kids and DH working 2 jobs. but i would much rather him watch porn to get off then another woman.
I don't have any problem with porn whatsoever. If SO wants to watch it and get off when I'm not around, who am I to stop him? Lol, when he goes to the store or something and I have 5 minutes alone (he works from home so he's almost always here), I take my vibrator and my iPod and run to the bathroom like nobody's business. I joke with him about it, too. "When you leave, I need you to drive reeeeeealllyyyyyyy sloooowwww so I can molest myself while you're gone." And pretty much every time I get home from work there's a bottle of lotion on his desk so I know he's been watching porn and masturbating, haha. I'm always just like, "Hmm, nice lotion there. Have fun?" He'll be like, "Yeah, twice!" Lmao.
by SierraLynnJanuary 29 at 2:07 PM
I put other. We have agreed that it is only okay while he is deployed. I dont like him looking at it while he is home. I think its disrespectful since we have a pretty active love life. Ive caught him a few times and only once was I really hurt by it, it was a lottle more then just porn but i wont get into it. But we worked out our agreement and things have been great.
by pittawaddaJanuary 29 at 2:25 PM
I think I agree with this. I mean, I understand there are times occasionally, but we have an active sex life (except when he is deployed or away for training).
I think if we had issues in that department then I could see how porn or masturbation would equate to an issue. So maybe that's why I never see it as an issue.
Porn is great as long as our sex life is good. If my needs take a back seat to masturbation, there is a problem.
January 29 at 2:27 PMIt would bug me if he chose to look at porn instead of bone me. Unless I already said no..then I don't really care.
by xoxRachelxoxJanuary 29 at 3:16 PM
I have no problems with it.