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January 29, 2013 at 1:27 PM

What are your thoughts on it?

I'm sure this has been before. I know it's a hot topic. 

I'll put a poll up. 

Thanks everyone who voted. I've wanted to do a poll for awhile and get some decent numbers. I appreciate all the input!

Is porn okay?
  • Only group members can vote in this poll.
  1. 51% - Totally fine whenever
  2. 9% - Only okay if I am there
  3. 6% - Only okay if we aren't together
  4. 26% - Never okay
  5. 6% - Other, there is always other


  • meangreen18
    January 29, 2013 at 1:29 PM

     our sex life is not like it used to be nowadays with 2 kids and DH working 2 jobs. but i would much rather him watch porn to get off then another woman.

  • AimSnapHolz
    January 29, 2013 at 2:06 PM

    I don't have any problem with porn whatsoever. If SO wants to watch it and get off when I'm not around, who am I to stop him? Lol, when he goes to the store or something and I have 5 minutes alone (he works from home so he's almost always here), I take my vibrator and my iPod and run to the bathroom like nobody's business. I joke with him about it, too. "When you leave, I need you to drive reeeeeealllyyyyyyy sloooowwww so I can molest myself while you're gone." And pretty much every time I get home from work there's a bottle of lotion on his desk so I know he's been watching porn and masturbating, haha. I'm always just like, "Hmm, nice lotion there. Have fun?" He'll be like, "Yeah, twice!" Lmao.

  • SierraLynn
    January 29, 2013 at 2:07 PM

     I put other. We have agreed that it is only okay while he is deployed. I dont like him looking at it while he is home. I think its disrespectful since we have a pretty active love life. Ive caught him a few times and only once was I really hurt by it, it was a lottle more then just porn but i wont get into it. But we worked out our agreement and things have been great.

  • Serenity7
    January 29, 2013 at 2:13 PM

     I don't agree with porn

  • thecoffeefairy
    January 29, 2013 at 2:16 PM
    Porn is great as long as our sex life is good. If my needs take a back seat to masturbation, there is a problem.
  • pittawadda
    January 29, 2013 at 2:25 PM

    I think I agree with this. I mean, I understand there are times occasionally, but we have an active sex life (except when he is deployed or away for training).

    I think if we had issues in that department then I could see how porn or masturbation would equate to an issue. So maybe that's why I never see it as an issue. 

    Quoting thecoffeefairy:

    Porn is great as long as our sex life is good. If my needs take a back seat to masturbation, there is a problem.

  • jellybeanjean
    January 29, 2013 at 2:27 PM
    It would bug me if he chose to look at porn instead of bone me. Unless I already said no..then I don't really care.
  • dizziestdream
    January 29, 2013 at 2:28 PM

    I don't really like the thought of DH watching porn.  A bad imagination is unpardonable. LOL

  • RheaF
    by RheaF
    January 29, 2013 at 2:37 PM
    We both feel porn is very wrong. So thankfully, it is not an issue.
  • xoxRachelxox
    January 29, 2013 at 3:16 PM

    I have no problems with it.

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