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1stTimeMom1982
Open Marriage *edit*
January 26, 2013 at 9:58 AM

In your honest opinion how do you feel about open marriage? There was a episode on Ricki Lake the other day and I'm still amazed. *On the open marriage aspect I think I should let it be known that these people were already married for about 12 yrs before they started having a open marriage. At that point they had 3 kids and didn't want to get divorced.*

Also would any of you swing with your husband or have a threesome?

I know these are personal questions so if you don't feel comfortable answering feel free to inbox me.

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  • Eco_Momma
    April 10, 2013 at 6:22 PM

     Is that what a relaionship is to you? sex? there is a lot more to it than that. But hey, if you must know, I haven't slept with any man other than my husband in 8 years, since the day I MET my husband.  

     Now run along. The OP asked a question and I answered.  You don't agree with my lifestyle and that's fine. I'm sure I wouldn't agree to yours either. Thing is, I have more class then to judge someone based on a CM post and you don't.


    Quoting MissAlly89:

    That's your responce? If I have to see it, I can respond if I damn well want. You just wanna fuck men other than your husband. Be honest.

    Quoting Eco_Momma:

    lol I'm sorry you see it that way. Why don't you worry about your relationshis and let others worry about theirs?

    Quoting MissAlly89:

    God this is pathetic. How does that sound okay to you? Marriage is a beautiful thing. Why ruin it with "seeing other people"? Clearly, you're not happy with your husband. And FYI, you don't need to have EVERYTHING in common with your husband to be happy.

    Quoting Eco_Momma:

     We are poly. Hubby is seeing a girl and I'm kind of seeing someone. We have very strict rules and it works out great for us.

     It's not about sex for us. Rule 3 is : no sex before you have been together for 6 months. 

     My hubby and I have different hobbies and interests and out partners fill the void. You will not catch we out at bars but Hubby and his lady love to go out. My guy and I love to garden and talk history.


    We love on different levels for diffenet reasons. Monogamy is a fairly new concept.






  • AnGLInterrupted
    April 10, 2013 at 6:31 PM

    IMO there are TWO people in my marriage and in my marriage bed.  The minute it becomes MORE or LESS than those TWO people (obviously DH and I), then we no longer have a marriage.

    I'm not knocking an open marriage.  It can work for some people.  But it's not for us.

  • MissAlly89
    April 11, 2013 at 11:26 PM

    I didn't say it was based soley on sex. Of course, it is part of most relationships. I'm sorry I don't agree with you. I shouldn't have been so bitchy. I'm sorry. If you're happy doing that, than that should be enough for me.

    Quoting Eco_Momma:

     Is that what a relaionship is to you? sex? there is a lot more to it than that. But hey, if you must know, I haven't slept with any man other than my husband in 8 years, since the day I MET my husband.  

     Now run along. The OP asked a question and I answered.  You don't agree with my lifestyle and that's fine. I'm sure I wouldn't agree to yours either. Thing is, I have more class then to judge someone based on a CM post and you don't.


    Quoting MissAlly89:

    That's your responce? If I have to see it, I can respond if I damn well want. You just wanna fuck men other than your husband. Be honest.

    Quoting Eco_Momma:

    lol I'm sorry you see it that way. Why don't you worry about your relationshis and let others worry about theirs?

    Quoting MissAlly89:

    God this is pathetic. How does that sound okay to you? Marriage is a beautiful thing. Why ruin it with "seeing other people"? Clearly, you're not happy with your husband. And FYI, you don't need to have EVERYTHING in common with your husband to be happy.

    Quoting Eco_Momma:

     We are poly. Hubby is seeing a girl and I'm kind of seeing someone. We have very strict rules and it works out great for us.

     It's not about sex for us. Rule 3 is : no sex before you have been together for 6 months. 

     My hubby and I have different hobbies and interests and out partners fill the void. You will not catch we out at bars but Hubby and his lady love to go out. My guy and I love to garden and talk history.


    We love on different levels for diffenet reasons. Monogamy is a fairly new concept.







  • lageise
    by lageise
    April 15, 2013 at 8:10 PM

    I agree with lucky2beeme.  I would never take part in an open marriage.  If I'm not enough then we can't be together anymore.  And as far as the threesome is concerned, I don't mind watching porn occasionally with my husband, but actually doing it is another thing.

     

    Quoting lucky2Beeme:

    I would never take part in an open marriage. I don't believe in them. I would feel I wasn't enough for my husband. I would leave before consenting to be in one. Threesome NEVER There is no way . That is strictly fantasy material in my world.

     

     

  • MomToovey
    April 15, 2013 at 10:22 PM

     I'm not the kind to share, nor is my husband - so an open marriage would not work for us. But I do know it works for some people, so to each his own.

  • MagicTemptation
    April 15, 2013 at 10:34 PM

    I just have to say wow....this post started in January and it is still going...

  • 1stTimeMom1982
    April 16, 2013 at 11:48 AM

    I know right....I was thinking the same thing lol 

    Quoting MagicTemptation:

    I just have to say wow....this post started in January and it is still going...


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