One night I sat on the couch in my t-shirt and undies. My husband informed me I was gross and he cannot sit on the couch unless there is a blanket on it. He has to clean it before he can sit on it. I blew up and he was being disrespectful to me. He said I was overreacting. Was I wrong?
We struggle with communication. I have asked him to see a family counselor before it is too late. He refuses to go, because we do not need it.
Is he saying things to get a rise out of you? I know it is hard but yelling does nothing but cause more problems. I use to yell. My thing is though. If my husband saw me in a t-shirt and panties he would be talking about how to get them off of me. Not how gross I was. That is something else that just didn't sit well with me.