I'm not trying to be innappropriate, I really want to know if I'm the only one....I HATE when DH wants oral sex. I avoid it at all costs, and get mad when he pushes me to do it. Does that make me a bad wife? (According to him it does). Does it make me selfish? What are your thoughts on the subject?
I have stopped doing it altogether. I gues for me when i was in my 20s and still experimenting, etc. , it was no big deal but as a Mother, it just doesnt feel appropriate anymore. Plus I just think of health reasons that I am going to be down there and then kissing my kids on the face, just seems wrong to me. I guess I am getting more prude-ish as I age. : /
He knows. I've told him on many occasions. He basically acts like it's my duty.....
Have you mentioned to him you dont like it? Its not my fav thing to do, i dont like it and dh knows. I might do it once in awhile but dh doesnt force it at all. Sounds like you should mention you really dont like doing it
I like doing it! I'm surprised by the answers. If he asks for it daily, its obviously important to him. I would do it as much as i could get myself to do it (if i didn't like it) to please it. That's just me i guess.
No not a bad wife. You just don't like doing that. I would tell yoir husband I am sorry but I just don't like doing that. I don't understand about the whole pushing thong why do people feel they have to push a subject like that and hope the pressure would make them do something they don't want to do.