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tiredmama42
Nooners and hugging co-workers...
January 17, 2013 at 1:35 PM

I have co-workers that are always hugging.  3 female that hug everyone especially.  One is male and I have known his wife for 16 years and she is extreamly jealous.  One of these women do the full body hug to him and moans when he hugs her.  Then you see them all running to each other saying they need their "nooner".   Every morning, noon and before the end of the day.    My DH also works for the same company and says its so unprofessional.  I dont do the hugging thing.. I have no desire to even get involved but they act like I have a plaque because I dont.   But the hugging is attempted with almost every man coming through the doors now.    I just keep thinking if the wifes knew about it they would be upset.  I am not a jealous person but I wouldnt want my husband having "nooners" of any kind with co-workers.   I am serious when I say everyday , minimum of 3 times a day.. other days its calling for back rubs.    I am just a prude?  the only arms I want wrapped around me is my DH or kids.  

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  • Kbkjcisneros
    January 17, 2013 at 1:41 PM
    I TOTALY agree with you!!!
  • AnGLInterrupted
    January 17, 2013 at 1:42 PM

    That's highly inappropriate.  Has anyone talked to HR about this?

  • Sagely
    by Sagely
    January 17, 2013 at 1:43 PM

    *shudders*


    Where the hell do you work?

  • jyofray
    by jyofray
    January 17, 2013 at 1:44 PM
    Unprofessional and immature. Ew
  • raegan1221
    January 17, 2013 at 1:44 PM

     

    Quoting Kbkjcisneros:

    I TOTALY agree with you!!!

     

  • tiredmama42
    January 17, 2013 at 1:51 PM

     Unfortunately I am HR.  Since the Owners dont think nothing of it then I cant say anything.   I did once about one of the girls wrapping her leg around one of the guys while huggin him and they didnt care.   These women are all between 40 & 45.. and act like they are in heat. 


    Quoting AnGLInterrupted:

    That's highly inappropriate.  Has anyone talked to HR about this?


     

  • AnGLInterrupted
    January 17, 2013 at 1:53 PM

    Tell the owners that this is very distracting, highly inappropriate and that this is making everyone else feel very uncomfortable and ask that you be allowed to handle it in a manner than an HR representative would.  (Meaning, they knock it off..  or get written up, then terminated).

    Quoting tiredmama42:

     Unfortunately I am HR.  Since the Owners dont think nothing of it then I cant say anything.   I did once about one of the girls wrapping her leg around one of the guys while huggin him and they didnt care.   These women are all between 40 & 45.. and act like they are in heat. 


    Quoting AnGLInterrupted:

    That's highly inappropriate.  Has anyone talked to HR about this?




  • tiredmama42
    January 17, 2013 at 2:03 PM

     

    I wish it worked that way.  They believe they are all consenting adults. 

    Quoting AnGLInterrupted:

    Tell the owners that this is very distracting, highly inappropriate and that this is making everyone else feel very uncomfortable and ask that you be allowed to handle it in a manner than an HR representative would.  (Meaning, they knock it off..  or get written up, then terminated).

    Quoting tiredmama42:

     Unfortunately I am HR.  Since the Owners dont think nothing of it then I cant say anything.   I did once about one of the girls wrapping her leg around one of the guys while huggin him and they didnt care.   These women are all between 40 & 45.. and act like they are in heat. 

     

    Quoting AnGLInterrupted:

    That's highly inappropriate.  Has anyone talked to HR about this?

     

     



     

  • lapcounter
    January 17, 2013 at 2:03 PM

    Holy crap!!! I am 42 I would be embarrassed as hell if I worked there!

    Quoting tiredmama42:

     Unfortunately I am HR.  Since the Owners dont think nothing of it then I cant say anything.   I did once about one of the girls wrapping her leg around one of the guys while huggin him and they didnt care.   These women are all between 40 & 45.. and act like they are in heat. 


    Quoting AnGLInterrupted:

    That's highly inappropriate.  Has anyone talked to HR about this?




  • AnGLInterrupted
    January 17, 2013 at 2:04 PM

    Wow!!  What company is this??  Aren't they afraid of a lawsuit or something?  Geez..

    Quoting tiredmama42:


    I wish it worked that way.  They believe they are all consenting adults. 

    Quoting AnGLInterrupted:

    Tell the owners that this is very distracting, highly inappropriate and that this is making everyone else feel very uncomfortable and ask that you be allowed to handle it in a manner than an HR representative would.  (Meaning, they knock it off..  or get written up, then terminated).

    Quoting tiredmama42:

     Unfortunately I am HR.  Since the Owners dont think nothing of it then I cant say anything.   I did once about one of the girls wrapping her leg around one of the guys while huggin him and they didnt care.   These women are all between 40 & 45.. and act like they are in heat. 


    Quoting AnGLInterrupted:

    That's highly inappropriate.  Has anyone talked to HR about this?






    ETA:  The only other thing I can tell you is to quietly look for another job.  One where you don't have to put up with that nonsense.  Most companies..  HR would quickly shut PDA's like that down.

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