My husband and I have been married about seven years now but it something major different in our sex life. I no longer have the drive that we once had and I feeling less but the day. He ask me whats wrong and I replied nothing but it is. I dont want to hurt his feelings but I dont know what else to do. sex isn't fun no more and i need it to be. One major issue is that my husband penis isn't big. I have a big problem with that now. some please give me some advice?
by Serenity7January 3 at 6:16 PM
Tell your husband you don't like his penis. The truth is always best
by KellyNipsJanuary 4 at 8:19 AM
sex doesn't always involve intercourse -- have your man use his fingers and perhaps toys -- save the intercourse for the very last moment -- you will find the experience awesome; also, try a romantic evening of candles, soft porn, and sexy lingerie. there are many ways to spruce up your sex life. listen to what these ladies are saying. good luck to you.
by Chakita0912January 4 at 8:40 AM
Have you tried like games? Like scabble only use sexy words and who ever wins gets to pick where the sex starts or you could us places that you would have sex. My husband and I did this when I was pregnant with our first. We also play with dice. The dice tell you what to do and what body part. We have fun with that. Have you tried different places like the kitchen or just start making out in the car and when you get home you can't keep your hands off from each other. What about a night trip? I live in Florida and in a small town so, when ever we go for a night trip we go to Jacksonville get a hotel on the beach (not expensive) it has a hot tub, a pool and a wonderful shower. We usally go out to eat and take a walk on the beach and then end up in the pool playing around and then end the night in the hot tub and trying to do it all over the room. Usally getting out of your cofort zone helps and you can easly get back to enjoying your sex life. I hope that this helps.
January 4 at 9:06 AM
I'd think buy a dildo and let him help! It sucks to have no sex drive, but the only answer I've found for that is to have sex anyway and usually the drive will come. It sucks when sex is no fun. Good luck!
January 8 at 4:48 PM
Toys are a great way to make things fun again.