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Theaterchick
i have a question about sexting?? Information added to why i asked. need advice!!
November 19, 2012 at 4:51 AM
Do u think sexting is cheating if you seen that your df was sexting another girl???

Info on why I asked!

I have been with df for 3 years now and this isn't the first time. I am not a jealous person and don't mind him having girl friends as I have guy friends. I had completely trusted him. I have been having a bad feeling lately and so I went through his phone which is a first and found it in some kik messenger thing. She told him I wanna lay next to you and stick my hand in ur boxers and he said oh yeah and do what? And she replied with play with ur dik and he said he would love that.... well there was a lot more but I couldn't read it so I put his phone back down and started to cry. I am the mother to his year old twins which he did the same thing when I was pregnant except was stupid to do it on a social network that I was his friend on and he now denies that ever happening. I am pregnant with our third and feel like this is all my fault. I don't know what to do but all my trust is gone and I don't trust him on his phone anymore. He is very secretive anyways. I am afraid to tell him cause I feel I betrayed him by going through his phone but also he betrayed me and is still doing. Idk what to do and I'm super hurt. I really need advice.


Sorry for it being long,i hope it made sense and sorry if I spelt anything wrong I am mobile. I just need advice.

Thanks in advance ladies!

Replies

  • crystalrbp
    November 19, 2012 at 5:47 AM
    Sure is. That would cause all kinds of problems, fast. If he's setting her there is probably a good chance they have already messed around or getting damn close to it. You don't just sext and think it means nothing.
  • 98765
    by 98765
    November 19, 2012 at 6:17 AM

    Absolutely

  • rockyhugs35
    November 19, 2012 at 6:33 AM
    Yes absolutly.
  • jnw2992
    by jnw2992
    November 19, 2012 at 6:57 AM

    Im going through that right now with my husband and i think it is cheating but i dont think its something that cant be worked on

  • dragonwitch507
    November 19, 2012 at 7:01 AM

    Anything you won't do in front of your partner is cheating.

  • AlannaMaria
    November 19, 2012 at 8:28 AM
    YES!
  • i.heart.myboys
    November 19, 2012 at 8:41 AM
    Of course.
  • ReadWriteLuv
    November 19, 2012 at 9:51 AM

    To me it is, but I guess that is up to you. I don't have a problem with porn, or whatever, but when you take it to the point that you are actively seeking other women out, and interacting with them, it's crossed a line. 

  • bookworm14
    November 19, 2012 at 9:59 AM
    Heck yeah! I would be PISSED if I found my boyfriend talking with another woman like that!
  • Sondi7
    by Sondi7
    November 19, 2012 at 10:00 AM

    Absolutely.

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