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ReadWriteLuv
Does he get mad when you cry?
November 15, 2012 at 5:32 PM
My husband does.



Short version: I absolutely love where we currently live. I love everything about it.



I absolutely hated with the fiery passion of 1000 infernos the city where we used to live before moving here.



He told me today we have to move back that god forsaken wasteland next August, we have no choice, due to his job. So, I did something I rarely, and I mean RARELY do: I burst into tears. He proceeded to get really mad at me and told me to stop crying and stop being a girl. Granted, he went on to explain to me how frustrated it made him feel when I cried, because he knew there was nothing he could do to make it better and it was really hard for him to deal with that.



Does your husband/SO get pissed off at you when you cry?

Replies

  • AlannaMaria
    November 15, 2012 at 5:43 PM
    He doesn't get pissed. He just feels bad..
  • matthew9_22
    November 15, 2012 at 5:58 PM

    My husband gets mad at me too when I cry. I try not to cry in front of him because of it. All I want when I cry is for my hubby to hold me and just be there. Not fix anything. Just be there. And men don't get that.

  • USMCwife0530
    November 15, 2012 at 6:01 PM
    Same here


    Quoting matthew9_22:

    My husband gets mad at me too when I cry. I try not to cry in front of him because of it. All I want when I cry is for my hubby to hold me and just be there. Not fix anything. Just be there. And men don't get that.


  • TommyAbby
    November 15, 2012 at 6:25 PM

    A) my hubby will hug me and let me cry. B) where is this horrid horrid place???


  • nicole2884
    November 15, 2012 at 6:31 PM

    hell no , he asks me whats wrong if he doesnt know an then he gives me a big hug

    sorry your dh is being a jerk

  • beeky
    by beeky
    November 15, 2012 at 6:32 PM

    No, he hates when I cry.

  • ReadWriteLuv
    November 15, 2012 at 6:32 PM
    Oklahoma City. A place I shall now and for forever more refer to as The Red Waste.

    Quoting TommyAbby:

    A) my hubby will hug me and let me cry. B) where is this horrid horrid place???


  • nlc75
    by nlc75
    November 15, 2012 at 6:33 PM
    Most of the time no. The other times he ignores me and let me cry.
  • rockinmomto2
    November 15, 2012 at 6:34 PM

    No, he hates it when I cry. 

  • Dee0886
    by Dee0886
    November 15, 2012 at 6:35 PM

    He doesn't really get mad, i think he feels bad and tries to help me feel better.

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