Thank you everyone for your kind and honest responses and opinions! I really do believe that we can work through our issues through counseling and church(we're catholic, so divorce for me isn't an option). He admitted what he did was wrong and could've handled the whole situation better. She texted the pics he voiced he wasn't a cheater. Her stupid response was I can respect you for that. That still doesn't make her a good person. She's a home wrecker and I got a bad feeling about her the first time I met her. I have apologized to my husband for sending the pics to our family and then posted pics of her around the area branding her a home wreck. I embarrassed and humiliated him the way he did to me. Now we need to go forth with counseling and not let this ruin us.
I'm so glad to hear things are going in the right direction for you! Not all guys are worth it nor do they realize how much they screwed up and become a better person. You deserve it. It won't be quick or easy, but stick with it and know none of it was your fault. Trust will be a long time coming. We went through something like this, but he actually did her. It's been hard for me, but he's definitely been a better version of himself. The trust is another thing. Getting better, though. :)
No, they moved and he has not had any contact with her.we went to counseling and have sorted everything out. He admitted he didn't want a divorce, he loves me, and there would be too much to lose if he had cheated on me. It's going to be slow, but we are going to move past this and start making our relationship better. Has anyone ever heard of the love dare? I bought it and thought about giving it a try
October 17, 2012 at 6:48 PM
Why did you send it to his family and then post the pictures around where you live? THat was soooo not the right thing to do at all!
Good luck with couseling, I hope you both learn something there!
I acted on emotion. I was pissed and betrayed. I made a fool of him like he did to me
October 17, 2012 at 6:50 PM
I am 29 and he is 33