Love & Marriage
UPDATE: I talked to DH. He apologized so much and was really upset that I felt we was pressuring me. He promised me it had nothing to do with how he felt about me or my body, he just knew I had talked about it and felt like if I wanted to do it we could afford it now and it was a good time. Neither of us are getting any younger and I'm healthy. He totally agreed it should only be about my decision and my body. I think I will go to the consult and get all the info., then decide. Oh, and as far as the suggestions about him having something done, he's more than I can manage in that department, except maybe I could ask him to shave his facial hair I've never seen him without! Thanks for all the comments and suggestions. He really is a wonderful husband and realized he was selfish and dense with how he sounded.
I'm a 32B and always wanted beautiful breasts but nobody is perfect. However, ever since I mentioned it DH keeps bringing it up, saying it's up to me, he wants me to be happy, etc. Well, I was fine until he kept harping on it so yes, I get the idea, he thinks it would be great too. I adore him, love him totally and now feel self conscious like I did when we first met. I know he married me this way and he insists he loves me but I'm just depressed today. He'd be so sorry if he knew I couldn't get over worrying over this. I don't know whether I want to call a dr. office today for an appointment or toughen up and try to love the girls I have!
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I'm 5' tall and I'm a 34D. Hell no lol
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Yes I would! My hubby brings it up a lot too but I do too, I want him to keep thinking about it so I know he hasn't forgot and he is figuring out a way to pay for me to get them. My boobs went yucky flat after pregnancy and I just want to feel somewhat normal again.
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Not a snowball's chance in hell would I get my breasts done to make my DH happy.
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I would LOVE a boob job lol. Im usually a 36B. I told dh i wanted a boob job, hes on board but not a jerk either and tells me he loves my boobs the way they are. I decided id wait until after we are done having kids before i get it done -
No. I'd only do it if I wanted to. That said, talk to your husband & tell him how you are feeling. That since you brought it up last that his constant commentary on it makes you feel like he is dissatisfied with what you have & that you are feeling self conscious & worried about it now. Also, I suggest you weigh all the pros & cons for this procedure if you think you might actually do it, you can lose a lot of sensation in them, also I believe breast feeding would also be affected. No idea where you are when it comes to children. So bear that in mind, not to mention it is quite painful. Anyway, if you do decide you want to do it, do it for yourself & no one else. -
I wouldn't let it get you down and self conscious. I'm sure he just loves your breast the way they are. Your thinking to much about it. Hang in there and go do something for yourself today to make you feel better about yourself. * Hugs* -
No they are not his. He brings it up sometimes but I am happy with them. Sometimes I want a lift but I'm happy with them they are 34B. I get insecure around my baby sitster she is 23 with DD. -
I would rather have a breast reduction than an inflation. LOL. If he was that shallow about my body, I would never have married him.
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I would only get it done if I wanted to.
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Tricky question isn't it!..I want them I am 5'1" with a 36b...dh doesn't want me to get them..he says they feel weird andthat he's not a fan....